December 30, 2008

Here's a conversation with the guy who hopes to marry me! Who I once thought was worth my whole life and more! Is it just a bad day.. or is he a no-goer?

11:14 AM

me: hello mister
the-ex: hi

11:15 AM

me: howdy?
the-ex: gud u?

11:16 AM
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me: cold :D
the-ex: oh oke
me: ok bye

11:18 AM

the-ex: y?
me: because you never talk to me
the-ex: ofcourse i do jus keeping busy these days

11:19 AM

me: ok then. ok bye then
the-ex: can u nt talk properly its just a Q?

11:20 AM

me: i can but you dont talk to me
the-ex: ofcourse i do

11:21 AM

me: no you don't

11:22 AM

me: you never initiate you dont even reply
the-ex: i always do
me: not even a single sentence saying that you are busy

11:23 AM

the-ex: what do i do when i am not on my desk
me: reply when you return, maybe?!

11:24 AM

the-ex: its just 9:55 am and sorry to say but i am not in a mood 2 spoil my mood therefore will catch u later

11:29 AM

me: then i think it is better that you never talk to me. if for you one morning's mood is more important than my state of mind since past one month.

And I logged out.

What is better?

What is better?

Being with some one you love to bits. This someone who is totally your opposite. Your interests don't match.
You love mornings. he loves the night.
Your day doesn't end until you've read. He doesn't last beyond a page.
You like museums. He thrives on pubs.
You like to walk. To talk. Hand in hand. Forever. He'd rather watch television. Together.

more like this. Could go on.

But you love him to bits. These things didn't matter until you broke up. Because it was only then that you saw them! :)

Or

Being with someone who fits to T to the description of the man of your dreams.
you meet at 8. for a date. enjoy the mild sun and the dew.
You read to each other. With each other.
You've runout of your list of museums and art galleries to go to.
You go for walks. And the talks. Hand in hand. Forever.

But, You don't love him.
You like him. Adore if it is what it is. Feel the hots for him. but love? you don't think you do. Or do you?

So, what is better? For you and for him. So how is it supposed to be?