What is better?

What is better?

Being with some one you love to bits. This someone who is totally your opposite. Your interests don't match.
You love mornings. he loves the night.
Your day doesn't end until you've read. He doesn't last beyond a page.
You like museums. He thrives on pubs.
You like to walk. To talk. Hand in hand. Forever. He'd rather watch television. Together.

more like this. Could go on.

But you love him to bits. These things didn't matter until you broke up. Because it was only then that you saw them! :)

Or

Being with someone who fits to T to the description of the man of your dreams.
you meet at 8. for a date. enjoy the mild sun and the dew.
You read to each other. With each other.
You've runout of your list of museums and art galleries to go to.
You go for walks. And the talks. Hand in hand. Forever.

But, You don't love him.
You like him. Adore if it is what it is. Feel the hots for him. but love? you don't think you do. Or do you?

So, what is better? For you and for him. So how is it supposed to be?